TO YOUNG LADIES>> I am also 16 and The best thing to do is wait till you are married..It may sound crazy but if you don’t then once you find THE ONE for you and say he was waiting then you are going to feel really bad and USED..Once you get married and share that special time with that person you love than it will be very special and great..but if you sleep casually with guys then when you marry then having sex will be NO BIG THING..I have had the same boyfriend for two and a half years(since the 8th grade) and the both of us have stayed pure..if you have already done it..then it’s not too late..God will always for give you..I hope many will ponder on this message..